Tuesday, January 16, 2007
Something interesting i read in my niece's blog.
There are 3 Realms of intimacy:(as defined by the Human Intimacy text and summarized by yours truly)
Breadth = activities done together
Depth = sharing of hurts, problems, dreams and ideals
Physical = touch, intercourse
Random bouts of realisation:
- guys have issues with big ego fluctuation levels
- girls need to stop bitching and be nice
- nice guys seldom win = don't be a nice guy. girls aren't impressed
- 2 years of waiting requires a lot of patience
- 5 years of nothing = give up and move on
- 4 years of rubbish = immature
- everyone has quirks. live with it. deal with it.
- cynicism can be a way of life
Haha funny how i was thinking about the 男人不坏女人不爱(nan ren bu huai nu ren bu ai) thing and then when i was chatting with her she said she had wrote it on her blog.
She was saying how though she hates it but she sees it in her life and in her friend's lives.
Haha maybe that's why i last time i was more successful.
Diao!
Hiaz maybe i just have good influences around me, people who teach me, i need to open and hold doors for ladies, i need to give way, when on the road i should walk outside and let the girl walk inside, carry things for them when needed, offer to buy drinks and food, if your food or drink not nice offer to change, basically treat a lady well and with respect for who she is.
Haha just to add i don't do it all the time, to everyone, so i'm not that nice in that sense. I try lah, was quite surprised and touched when my niece noticed i took effort to do those. Hmm
Hmm maybe i'm nonsense, nobody ask me do such things mah, u want to do yourself what, so don't make noise lolz.
Orh well part of the journey of loving without expectations.
Hiaz then my niece say girls these days all very independent no need and they don't bother about people who do such things.
Haha nvm its my choice.
Don't judge me k? Else why i bother to have a blog for if i can't state how certain things are being done.
Anyway yah think i've come to terms with it.
I do what i know it's right, and i'll keep doing it whether or not i stand at a losing end or whether i'm appreciated cause it's what i believe is right.
Need to get over this appreciation thingy too :)
I do hope i'll be more consistent though :)
Think i'm learning each day, i'm not perfect, in fact very much weak and sinful but by the grace of god i hope to grow more and more loving each day to people around me and to god.
I pray the same for you who are reading this :)
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josh out
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